If it was me choosing the cave, 要是让我挑洞穴的话
Chandler: I'm not gonna talk to her, she obviously got my message and is choosing not to call me. Now I'm needy and snubbed. God, I miss just being needy. 我不会跟她说话的,她显然听到我的留言了,而且选择不回电。我既渴望又遭人冷落,天啊,我真想念纯渴望的滋味。(snub:冷落。)